Gratitude

As I sit here it is between Christmas and New Years...a time where many of us reflect on the year and our lives.  I am no different.

However, I am not reflecting on things I want, desire or wish I had.  I am reflecting on all the wonderful things I do have - a great wife, beautiful children who make me laugh everyday, extended family who love me and I them, fantastic friends, good job and nice home.

And so much more...

We often do not think of these things that bring so much richness to our lives as we search for other things we yet have.  That's a little bit sad.  By not thinking of the great, wonderful things we have - no matter how small - we are missing out on a peaceful life.

Running water - I am so grateful for this.  Can you imagine being one of the millions around the globe who must walk miles to get water - and it may not even be fresh water?  I am so grateful that all I have to do is to walk to a faucet, turn it and instantly I have either cold or hot water - my choice!

Laughter - I am grateful that I have so much laughter in my life.  Many cannot say this and many can't actually hear it if it is happening around them.  Oh...what a tragedy.

My wife and family - I am blessed.  A wife that is beautiful inside and out and three wonderful daughters.  I also have many brothers and sisters - and we all get along.  Not everyone can say that.  There is little to no strife in my household - I am very grateful.

There are many things each day to be grateful for - shoot just waking up is something - Although I understand that some individuals wish they didn't wake up this morning.  We all should get into a habit of listing three things we are grateful for each day.  They can be big philosophical things like finding a relationship with our creator or something seemingly small like the wonderful taste of a Butterfinger candy bar.  Both bring joy to one's life...

Recognizing things to be grateful for brings peace to your life - at least it does mine.  It makes me a better father, husband, leader...person.

Try it...write down at least one thing if you can't list three things each day that you are grateful for.  Keep it in a journal, notebook, on your phone...somewhere you can go back and review occasionally.

It will change your heart...